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Caring for your "elderly friend" |
| It may not
seem like so long ago, you look into the eyes of your grey muzzled friend
and picture the bouncy bundle of fluff running about at full speed.
Oh it doesn't seem so many years have passed but they have!
You may have noticed that your friend has slowed right down, doesn't seem quite "with it", seems to be forgetting basic things like letting you know he needs to go out or staring at you blankly when you ask him to do something, it seems old age has sneaked up on you all when you weren't looking! When caring for an older dog you have to slow life down a bit, take it easy in these twilight years as your dog may be reluctant to go out walks or play, indeed some of them don't seem to want as much contact with you as they used to, again some may turn very clingy, not letting you out of their sight. Elderly dogs
tend to become less active, eat less, have toilet problems, his coat may
become dull and lifeless indeed he may start loosing his hair.
First off we
don't stop going walks, we just go shorter more interesting walks at a
slower pace to allow him to sniff about and generally do what he wants
to do.
We groom him, make time for him and him alone whilst we massage him checking for lumps and bumps as well as soothing his aching joints. We also play with him, even if it's just a little tickle of the paws, a little teasing game just to keep his interest and let him know he's still loved and if he allows it, we cuddle him, sit on the floor just touching him, letting him know we'll always be there for him. He may want to drink more so we allow him out more often as his bladder control may not be what it was. We take him out first thing in the morning, during the day, after feeds and at bedtime so he can relieve himself although through time he may not even know he's needing the toilet or can leak due to muscle weakness. As for his aches
and pains, well we provide him with a soft, easily washed bed well away
from draughts and close to us should he be seeking companionship.
There are a lot of different medications that can be given to him for his
arthritis as well as some excellent alternative remedies.
He may have very erratic sleep patterns, sleeping all day and becoming very restless at night leading to him prowling about. In his elderly years his eyesight could become impaired, close up objects may be missed whereas things in the distance can still be seen. He may be disorientated, needing a little comfort and reassurance on his daily walks as some dogs show signs of dementia. We don't let him out of our sight on his walks in case he wanders off or worse still, a younger dog comes over to bother him although he should still be encouraged to interact with his fellow species. It is also important to look after his teeth as the mouth area can hold clues to other ailments such as tooth or gum decease but most of all you make him feel loved, an important member of the family who deserves some extra special time from you. He may also become quite grumpy, fed up and very intolerant so do try to protect him from younger animals in the house as well as you own younger off spring. Explain to the kiddies that he is an older dog and needs his rest and a little peace and quiet. It's a sad fact that parents of the elderly tend to let the older dog do his own thing which is fine to a point but in doing this unbeknown to them, they could be excluding the dog from daily activities as they don't want to "bother" him. With the best will in the world the older dog does need to be bothered with, he needs love, extra attention and should he show signs of senility, he needs to be watched as if he was the puppy you brought home not so long ago. Also remember
that although he used to love going long trips in the car, he may not be
up to them anymore due to the lying still in the one place too long so
extra bedding can help a little.
In a multi dog household you may have a problem with the pecking order as a younger dog may try to take over the top dog role. This adds to the upset of watching your friend age as you have to let the dogs sort this one out for themselves within reason. With Corra and Mick this problem finally cropped up in her last year. Mick was very good with her really but he did push her about a little and all we could do was monitor the situation and cause a diversion when he got a little too rough, in doing this we felt neither dog lost face, there was no winners or losers and the intervention wasn't even noticed. Corra was a very dominant bitch so it was very upsetting to feel you had to defend her as you really can't interfere too much no matter how much you want your top dog to remain top! In reality, they older dog steps aside for the stronger and fitter younger one. Whether you like it or not, it's a fact of life. So to summarize:---
I suppose a good rule of thumb is let him guide you but don't let him just lie about miserable waiting on the inevitable...Should he shown signs of senility then treat him as you would when he was that little bundle of fluff. Take him out often in order to relieve himself, take him short but interesting walks and allow for him not understanding what your asking off him. It is a good idea to visit your vet for a full check up on at least a 6 monthly basis, should anything at all concern you then into the vets straight away with him as he will be susceptible to illness and disease which hopefully can be tackled before it leads to a major problem. Dogs nowadays are living longer as a rule so more and more things are going wrong with them but with the right veterinary treatment, back up support and tender loving care, his twilight years can be made a lot more pleasant as time goes by. This article may be grim reading but I do believe that should you employ most of the above then your friend should enjoy his twilight years instead of them being a penance to him. Do enjoy your dogs. Liz
A Woods
footnote:
April 2005
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